Good Luck and Farewell to Mike
3 April 2009
Mike DiMeglio has decided to relinquish his position as a disciple at the YMAA Retreat Center and return home. It is a decision that he came to after much pondering, discussion, and deep thought over the past few months. Although he will not be completing the 10-year training program, he believes his experience over the past year has helped him get to a much better place in his life. Describing it as an increase in consciousness and discovery of who he truly is, Mike is departing the Retreat Center with confidence and clarity. We are happy to see that Mike has benefited from his training experience, but we're sorry to see him go.
"When I first came to the Retreat Center, my level of consciousness was very low, which I feel was due to the circumstances of my mother dying when I was only a year old. My father could not face the pain and heartbreak, and he was taken by drugs, into a place where he tried to cope. Due to reasons such as this, I had very little guidance or support in my life. Many bad behaviors and habits were formed and instilled in me. I had no idea this was happening, partly because people did not alert or correct me, and they may not have had that awareness that I needed it.
After arriving at the Retreat Center, I was torn apart and put back together in a way that I cannot even begin to explain to you such that you would fully understand. Before I was gullible and easily manipulated. I believed in things some may have said was fantasy or unrealistic, but now I finally have what I was missing: the ability to question everything in my life and not believe blindly. We all follow different paths that lead us to where we want to go, and it seems that the nature of this "Tao" thing, which cannot truly be named, is leading towards the way of nature for me. I am now going to pursue these other goals and allow Dr. Yang to find someone else who fits his goals and can help him accomplish them. I have discovered who and what I truly am. I have found my path. THANK YOU, ALL! GOODBYE MY FRIENDS."
- Mike DiMeglio
March 30, 2009
The quest for mastery in any art is indeed a long, difficult, but remarkable journey. Whether we spend one year or 100 years, the process that we endure, persevere through, and ultimately enjoy -- for whatever time we put into it -- can benefit our lives greatly and have a significant, meaningful impact. It is what helps us to learn about our lives and those of others, to bring clarity to our minds, and to achieve an overall sense of accomplishment. While it is unfortunate that there is one less disciple to study and help pass down Dr. Yang's knowledge of the Chinese arts, we are ecstatic to hear that Mike has found himself just through his short time at the Retreat Center. We wish you the best of luck in the times ahead, Mike.


Response to Robyn S.'s comment below
Hi Robyn:
I don't see what you mean by "broken promises", as the full training curriculum is laid out plain and clear here http://ymaa-retreatcenter.org/about/curriculum, and the disciples have not deviated from this schedule thus far. We do not expect the disciples to finish 100% of it, but a good portion of it nonetheless. None of the listed topics are far-fetched or irregularly extraordinary.
I don't know what your definition of "training" is, but the disciples at the Retreat Center so far have been training fundamentals and a proper foundation for traditional Chinese martial arts, including basic gymnastics and intense body conditioning.
You mention "exploitation" but don't state specifically what is being exploited?
What do you mean by "pseudo-mysticism"? Dr. Yang has never stated anything like, "You'll be able to fly off rooftops after training here." That is simply ludicrous.
I fail to see how it's an "absentee master" when Dr. Yang is leading the center's exercises. If you think Dr. Yang should be present with the disciples 24/7, that is a very improper way to train and learn at any type of school. Students should not be led every step of the way; it only builds a lack of independence. Instructors and teachers merely exist to guide us in the right direction. Most of the success of any student, disciple or not, will depend on the student's own self-discipline and mind.
I think it is a bit immature to be trying to get Mike to say the things you want to hear, whether they are true or not. It is also disrespectful to Mike to call his public statement "BS" as you are indirectly accusing him of lying and discrediting his words.
We do not claim to be a "paradise". The training is far from being suited for every individual. Please do your research before making such unsupported and irreverent posts.
Regards,
--
Nicholas C. Yang
President, YMAA International
Director, YMAA Boston
leaving? why?
Ok Mike,
so what are the REAL reasons you decided to leave the YANG Paradise?
Forget the bs about finding yourself! Why don't you tell everyone
the TRUTH about why you left? The broken promises, the ridiculous
so-called "training", the obvious exploitation, the pseudo-mysticism,
and the absentee master. Now THAT would be more honest on your part!
Peace Mike
Mike you're my bro and it wont be the same without you...
See you on vacation.
Good luck man
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